So Allie is eating better - the whole time Gracie was away at camp with Natalie (hopefully she will actually blog about it!) Als ate and didn't fret much. I was really pleased, I expected her to fall apart being by herself.
I have continued with the Apetite pasting every night and keeping her feed simple and only adding a little more at a time and this has seemed to do the trick. She is putting on weight again.